Is there a thing such as unconditional love - loving someone for no reason, or is love only based on lust such as physical appearence, or a little deeper like based on personality? Unconditional love, in my opinion, can happen, but not as often. You can always tell someone you love them, because at that moment, you might. But how do you know a week down the road? A month? A year? You hope you still love them, but it isn't something you can always tell. For me, unconditional love is more towards family and some friends and pets. But unconditionally loving someone you're in a relationship with? I don't know if that's possible, based on what I believe.